STUDY - Technical - New Dacian's Medicine
The
Language of the Subconscious (15).
Translation Draft
Loneliness... We were definitely created to be social creatures. Or we've evolved towards something like this (it matters?!?). We thrive and develop when we are surrounded by the people we love and care about, who love us and care about us. So when an inner voice rings and says "I'm alone," when we experience the feeling of loneliness, that voice actually says, "I need someone, I need to be with someone That I care about and who cares about me"...
Strange as it may seem, as the planet is getting busier and more crowded, people are becoming increasingly isolated, losing the ability to bond "true" friendships. Maybe it's because people are more mobile, or maybe more sophisticated. Added to this are the effects of technology (it is much easier for us to turn on the TV or the Internet than to physically engage in real human relationships).
In the not too distant past, people lived not too far from the city where they were born and, as a result, human communities were very close and relations between people had a whole different level (of quality but also of intensity) compared to today. So the real problem arises from the fact that we are actually genetically programmed to have satisfactions directly from human relations and modern society is offering us more and more surrogates. There is no activity in this respect from the point of view of television, food, alcohol, shopping and other activities, which are nothing but addictions, elements of compensation.
Very often loneliness is confused with boredom. Many of us think "I'm not really interested in..." when the real feeling is "I wish I had a friend to do something with him". As in the first case, loneliness can be confused with sadness even if these feelings are really different. Sadness "attracted" to a loss leads to sensations compatible with those of loneliness.
But let's see how this feeling of loneliness or any other name that expresses a particular level of intensity, such as leaving, isolating, rejecting or not accepting, can be identified. Here are some questions that may come to us: "Are you really abandoned, rejected, isolated or need to change your perspective, the way you see things?", "If you need to change your perspective, how will you develop one?", "If you're really isolated, then you can meet the people around you." and "What do I need to learn to establish good and healthy human relationships?" ... Do not confuse the feeling of loneliness with sadness or boredom (they are different things).
The cause of this feeling is the experience of a good and healthy desire for human relations, because the relationships that led to the appearance of that feeling are non-existent, weak or false. The best solution, in this case, is to make a kind of list of things you want to solve in the company of other people who matter to you or who share your interests. Considerations such as: "Call someone you know to share something useful", "Plan a meal (meeting) with friends you haven't seen in a long time", "Seek to have a job where you can do something you like with other employees", "Participate in activities in themed circles or in themed clubs (gardening , literature, etc.)", "Take dance or music lessons", "Participate in volunteer activities for a good cause", "Start spiritual activities in church or spiritual communities", "Meet with neighbors", "Grab politics" and so on.m.d.
Let's move now on to the feeling of inadequacy (at the moment we have not identified a better term). The mismatch (contradiction, contrast) is born out of necessity, need, desire to feel good enough, to feel majority in resonance with what we live. It's the inner voice that tells us, "I feel like there's something wrong with me." As we grow, as we go through life, we meet people who decide for one reason or another that there is something wrong with us, expressing their opinion through words or deeds.
In other words, they send us the message, or we receive, interpret, feel, what might sound like this: "You're not good enough, smart, smart, strong, etc. enough." Spoken words often have the gift of having the power to hurt more than we expect, giving in to intense feelings. Such words would be: "You're bad," "You're doing bad things," "I'm ashamed of you," "What's wrong with you doing this?", "Nobody wants to be around someone like you" and others. These "misinformation" often has a devastating effect and will remain in us for a long time since the event that triggered them.
But all this is just emotional resonance. In reality it is about our true perception, faith, misinformed and deviated from the true sense, the one perceived subconsciously by us. It's about what we believe, and by no means our true "positions." And so we will continue to feel inadequate, unloved or evil. Here lies the manifestation of most of our childhood "perceptions", when our suggestiveness is maximum. Now is the time when we unconditionally accept incredible "things" that will push us towards actions of the same kind, simply because they are transmitted to us so by adults, especially by parents.
Thus it is possible that misinformation that hurts is considered good enough to be considered and become part of our belief system and, even if we move forward, disregarding this subconscious, unprocessed baggage of childhood he will act until we gather a sufficient amount of knowledge about the surrounding world so that we are able to control possibly to remove this kind of negative "positions" in accordance with our reality. Why?!? Because most of these "perceptions" (beliefs, etc.) are not only related to the Easter bunny, the tooth fairy or the like but because many, more than you imagine, are related to strong negative emotions such as "bau-bau", "bad strangers" and the like (which, for example, will maintain our fear of darkness, fear of having contact with strangers , and so on.m.d.).
As adults, therefore, we come to reject many of these misinformations, even if it will often be necessary to make a sustained effort to consciously correct these problems. And, this sustained effort is necessary because we are talking about something that is kept subconsciously, where nothing is forgotten but just corrected (through positive suggestions, through consciously organized considerations and others, which will be described, "in their time").
But, to remember, it is that whenever we feel "inappropriate" (inappropriate), the cascading feelings that come from our "present" past in the subconscious come into the present, causing us to have "wrong" positions, often characterized by "out of the ordinary", in total inconsistency with what is happening. And if that's all it is. Let us not forget the emotional resonance and, above all, the fact that similar reactions are created with regard to future events. An example of this is the manifestation of a feeling of inadequacy in work (in our activities) where we often feel that "we are not at the height", that "we are not doing (we are not able to do) what is required of us" (especially). It is clear that we perceive "information" from our past because, obviously, we are faced with something that we have never done before (such as learning a new computer program or training in a new activity).
The conclusion is much more "ample". If we do not understand that this feeling of inadequacy is the main agent that makes us avoid new situations, so enriching our lives, it can be truly paralyzing, or often missing out on real opportunities. So, where does he come from?!? Directly from the activity of the subconscious which, out of convenience, intention of protection, etc. wants to act on the basis of what it has at its disposal. That's all.
So we are dealing with a protective reaction that is based on some "old" misinformation. And from here, that's why we have to take care of the real perception of this feeling, of what the subconscious signals through it.
So, what do we have to do first?!? Obviously we need to correctly identify the feeling of inadequacy, or another name associated with a particular level of intensity, such as, the feeling of stupidity, stupidity, stupidity, ineptitude, vice, etc. Only then will the cause of the feeling be identified, usually caused by a present event where various question marks appear about the ability to lead it to a finality (to fulfill a mission, a problem, an obligation, etc.), a feeling that will certainly resonate with the perceptions of the past, with what is stored in the subconscious (programmed , perceived or otherwise) in connection with... "you're not good enough for this."
Finding a satisfactory answer can be grouped into two major "results", for which the following questions will help: "Are you really inappropriate or just need a change of perception of your qualities?", "Recognize which areas of your life are where you fit best and that use your real qualities" or "If you need to use your qualities , make a plan to accomplish this"...
Like most people, you probably find it difficult to separate your feelings from what is worth or is good for your skills and desires for completion. But that's because you've learned to relate to the past, to what you've done in the past (and, of course, to the results, feelings, etc. since then). When our expectations aren't met, you feel like there's something wrong with you, something deep, hard to identify, that you're not good enough. This belief can be so strong, so persuasive that you often come to feel that you are not good enough no matter what you have to do, which is irrational, untrue.
Why so much trouble?!? Because for a very long time in your life you have trained this faith, real most of the time (you can't be a doctor when you're only 4 years old) and that belief is obviously almost impossible to eliminate. A permanent exercise is required to reject these beliefs every time they arise. To have a kind of "friend" in the mind who says "Cancel, cancel!" to eliminate these perceptions, these feelings. But at the same time, it takes an effort to replace this perception, this feeling with something else, the opposite, such as our efforts to improve our qualities (possibly to ask for help in achieving our goals).
But, we will discuss everything at length much later (in future posts)... There's still a lot to understand. Understanding the language of the subconscious through its emotions and feelings is also quite difficult and we must always face the onslaught of the past in the subconscious. So I'm just going to move on to the presentation of helpful questions, as I've accustomed you: "I'm really inappropriate or I just need to change the way I see it to change the perspective I'm looking at?", "If I have to change perspective, how can I develop a new one?", "If new qualities are needed, or activating others, how do I do that?", "How can I always practice the exercise of eliminating to cancel negative perceptions about what is part of my life?" ... And others... Like I said, in future posts when we know more.
That's enough for today! There will be weekend posts that will be somewhat larger (especially since tomorrow I will address the stress)...
Loneliness... We were definitely created to be social creatures. Or we've evolved towards something like this (it matters?!?). We thrive and develop when we are surrounded by the people we love and care about, who love us and care about us. So when an inner voice rings and says "I'm alone," when we experience the feeling of loneliness, that voice actually says, "I need someone, I need to be with someone That I care about and who cares about me"...
Strange as it may seem, as the planet is getting busier and more crowded, people are becoming increasingly isolated, losing the ability to bond "true" friendships. Maybe it's because people are more mobile, or maybe more sophisticated. Added to this are the effects of technology (it is much easier for us to turn on the TV or the Internet than to physically engage in real human relationships).
In the not too distant past, people lived not too far from the city where they were born and, as a result, human communities were very close and relations between people had a whole different level (of quality but also of intensity) compared to today. So the real problem arises from the fact that we are actually genetically programmed to have satisfactions directly from human relations and modern society is offering us more and more surrogates. There is no activity in this respect from the point of view of television, food, alcohol, shopping and other activities, which are nothing but addictions, elements of compensation.
Very often loneliness is confused with boredom. Many of us think "I'm not really interested in..." when the real feeling is "I wish I had a friend to do something with him". As in the first case, loneliness can be confused with sadness even if these feelings are really different. Sadness "attracted" to a loss leads to sensations compatible with those of loneliness.
But let's see how this feeling of loneliness or any other name that expresses a particular level of intensity, such as leaving, isolating, rejecting or not accepting, can be identified. Here are some questions that may come to us: "Are you really abandoned, rejected, isolated or need to change your perspective, the way you see things?", "If you need to change your perspective, how will you develop one?", "If you're really isolated, then you can meet the people around you." and "What do I need to learn to establish good and healthy human relationships?" ... Do not confuse the feeling of loneliness with sadness or boredom (they are different things).
The cause of this feeling is the experience of a good and healthy desire for human relations, because the relationships that led to the appearance of that feeling are non-existent, weak or false. The best solution, in this case, is to make a kind of list of things you want to solve in the company of other people who matter to you or who share your interests. Considerations such as: "Call someone you know to share something useful", "Plan a meal (meeting) with friends you haven't seen in a long time", "Seek to have a job where you can do something you like with other employees", "Participate in activities in themed circles or in themed clubs (gardening , literature, etc.)", "Take dance or music lessons", "Participate in volunteer activities for a good cause", "Start spiritual activities in church or spiritual communities", "Meet with neighbors", "Grab politics" and so on.m.d.
Let's move now on to the feeling of inadequacy (at the moment we have not identified a better term). The mismatch (contradiction, contrast) is born out of necessity, need, desire to feel good enough, to feel majority in resonance with what we live. It's the inner voice that tells us, "I feel like there's something wrong with me." As we grow, as we go through life, we meet people who decide for one reason or another that there is something wrong with us, expressing their opinion through words or deeds.
In other words, they send us the message, or we receive, interpret, feel, what might sound like this: "You're not good enough, smart, smart, strong, etc. enough." Spoken words often have the gift of having the power to hurt more than we expect, giving in to intense feelings. Such words would be: "You're bad," "You're doing bad things," "I'm ashamed of you," "What's wrong with you doing this?", "Nobody wants to be around someone like you" and others. These "misinformation" often has a devastating effect and will remain in us for a long time since the event that triggered them.
But all this is just emotional resonance. In reality it is about our true perception, faith, misinformed and deviated from the true sense, the one perceived subconsciously by us. It's about what we believe, and by no means our true "positions." And so we will continue to feel inadequate, unloved or evil. Here lies the manifestation of most of our childhood "perceptions", when our suggestiveness is maximum. Now is the time when we unconditionally accept incredible "things" that will push us towards actions of the same kind, simply because they are transmitted to us so by adults, especially by parents.
Thus it is possible that misinformation that hurts is considered good enough to be considered and become part of our belief system and, even if we move forward, disregarding this subconscious, unprocessed baggage of childhood he will act until we gather a sufficient amount of knowledge about the surrounding world so that we are able to control possibly to remove this kind of negative "positions" in accordance with our reality. Why?!? Because most of these "perceptions" (beliefs, etc.) are not only related to the Easter bunny, the tooth fairy or the like but because many, more than you imagine, are related to strong negative emotions such as "bau-bau", "bad strangers" and the like (which, for example, will maintain our fear of darkness, fear of having contact with strangers , and so on.m.d.).
As adults, therefore, we come to reject many of these misinformations, even if it will often be necessary to make a sustained effort to consciously correct these problems. And, this sustained effort is necessary because we are talking about something that is kept subconsciously, where nothing is forgotten but just corrected (through positive suggestions, through consciously organized considerations and others, which will be described, "in their time").
But, to remember, it is that whenever we feel "inappropriate" (inappropriate), the cascading feelings that come from our "present" past in the subconscious come into the present, causing us to have "wrong" positions, often characterized by "out of the ordinary", in total inconsistency with what is happening. And if that's all it is. Let us not forget the emotional resonance and, above all, the fact that similar reactions are created with regard to future events. An example of this is the manifestation of a feeling of inadequacy in work (in our activities) where we often feel that "we are not at the height", that "we are not doing (we are not able to do) what is required of us" (especially). It is clear that we perceive "information" from our past because, obviously, we are faced with something that we have never done before (such as learning a new computer program or training in a new activity).
The conclusion is much more "ample". If we do not understand that this feeling of inadequacy is the main agent that makes us avoid new situations, so enriching our lives, it can be truly paralyzing, or often missing out on real opportunities. So, where does he come from?!? Directly from the activity of the subconscious which, out of convenience, intention of protection, etc. wants to act on the basis of what it has at its disposal. That's all.
So we are dealing with a protective reaction that is based on some "old" misinformation. And from here, that's why we have to take care of the real perception of this feeling, of what the subconscious signals through it.
So, what do we have to do first?!? Obviously we need to correctly identify the feeling of inadequacy, or another name associated with a particular level of intensity, such as, the feeling of stupidity, stupidity, stupidity, ineptitude, vice, etc. Only then will the cause of the feeling be identified, usually caused by a present event where various question marks appear about the ability to lead it to a finality (to fulfill a mission, a problem, an obligation, etc.), a feeling that will certainly resonate with the perceptions of the past, with what is stored in the subconscious (programmed , perceived or otherwise) in connection with... "you're not good enough for this."
Finding a satisfactory answer can be grouped into two major "results", for which the following questions will help: "Are you really inappropriate or just need a change of perception of your qualities?", "Recognize which areas of your life are where you fit best and that use your real qualities" or "If you need to use your qualities , make a plan to accomplish this"...
Like most people, you probably find it difficult to separate your feelings from what is worth or is good for your skills and desires for completion. But that's because you've learned to relate to the past, to what you've done in the past (and, of course, to the results, feelings, etc. since then). When our expectations aren't met, you feel like there's something wrong with you, something deep, hard to identify, that you're not good enough. This belief can be so strong, so persuasive that you often come to feel that you are not good enough no matter what you have to do, which is irrational, untrue.
Why so much trouble?!? Because for a very long time in your life you have trained this faith, real most of the time (you can't be a doctor when you're only 4 years old) and that belief is obviously almost impossible to eliminate. A permanent exercise is required to reject these beliefs every time they arise. To have a kind of "friend" in the mind who says "Cancel, cancel!" to eliminate these perceptions, these feelings. But at the same time, it takes an effort to replace this perception, this feeling with something else, the opposite, such as our efforts to improve our qualities (possibly to ask for help in achieving our goals).
But, we will discuss everything at length much later (in future posts)... There's still a lot to understand. Understanding the language of the subconscious through its emotions and feelings is also quite difficult and we must always face the onslaught of the past in the subconscious. So I'm just going to move on to the presentation of helpful questions, as I've accustomed you: "I'm really inappropriate or I just need to change the way I see it to change the perspective I'm looking at?", "If I have to change perspective, how can I develop a new one?", "If new qualities are needed, or activating others, how do I do that?", "How can I always practice the exercise of eliminating to cancel negative perceptions about what is part of my life?" ... And others... Like I said, in future posts when we know more.
That's enough for today! There will be weekend posts that will be somewhat larger (especially since tomorrow I will address the stress)...
Love,
Gratitude and Understanding (Namaste)!!!
Dorin, Merticaru