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We continue with the fugitive's mask, the one used for the typology of the rejected one...

As I said before, the fugitive did not feel accepted and received by his same-sex parent. This does not necessarily mean that the parent rejected him or her. The same soul could have come back with a wound of humiliation and felt humiliated with the same parents and the same attitude... It goes without saying that the fugitive draws more rejection experiences than any other person, like a brother or sister who does not have the same wound.

The person suffering from rejection always seeks the same-sex parent's love with her, either in relation to that parent or by transferring his search to other persons of the same sex...

And he believes that he will not be a complete person as long as he does not get the love of that parent by being very sensitive to the slightest rebuke he received from that parent when he can feel very easily rejected (even if the fugitive would like the parent to be the one who makes it so that the fugitive does not feel rejected). And almost everything is because the fugitive is rather afraid of rejecting him himself.

And if he experiences rejection with the parent or another person of the opposite sex, he blames himself for that situation and rejects himself by saying that because of him he was rejected by the other. It will come to grudge or even hatred so strong (being a disappointed love, even if only in the imaginary) as great as suffering.

The wound of rejection is so profound that the fugitive is the most prone being to hatred, being "able" to easily move from a phase of great love to a great hatred (which indicates his great inner suffering). By extending these behaviors to other people, the fugitive thinks that to love is to accept the other even if we don't understand him.

The fugitive thus lives in ambivalence. When elected he does not believe this and rejects himself, sometimes ending up sabotaging a situation and when he is not selected in something he feels rejected by others.

One common thing in a fugitive is that he says or thinks that what he does is worthless. When he is given too much attention, he loses his means and is afraid to take up too much space (if he uses too much space he thinks it bothers, and disturbing means for him that he will be rejected by the person or people he is uncomfortable with or that he thinks is bothering them).

For example, and when someone talks and interrupts him, his immediate reaction is to think that he is not important and usually doesn't say anything. That's why the fugitive hardly expresses his opinions when he is not asked, because he believes that others will feel confronted and reject him.

Another characteristic of the fugitive is to seek perfection in everything he does, because he believes that if he makes a mistake as being judged and for him, to be judged, is equivalent to being rejected. And since he doesn't believe in his perfection, he compensates for it by trying to achieve perfection in what he does.

Unfortunately, it confuses "being" but "doing" and the quest for perfection can become an obsession. He wants to do everything perfectly so badly that he will stay "stupid" on deadlines and thus attract other situations of rejection on the side of others.

But the fugitive's greatest fear is panic. As soon as he thinks he's about to panic in a particular situation, his first reaction will be to save himself, hide or run away, preferring to disappear because he knows that, being in panic, he can stay still.

He thinks that by running away, he'll be able to avoid unhappiness. As in life we happen to attract the kind of situations or people we are afraid of, the fugitive often attracts "creative" situations of panic, for the fugitive the situation becomes quite dramatic even if he will always find good reasons to justify his departures (run away). The fear of panicking also leads, in the case of the fugitive, to memory loss in most of the situations.

Now we will make a small foray (because all that must be debated later - "All in their time") in the elements related to the new medicine, the bonds between the spirit-brain and the body...

It is interesting to note (in medical studies) that "injuries" can affect the way we feed. The human being feeds his physical body just as he feeds the emotional or the mental.

At the feeding level, the fugitive prefers small portions and often the appetite disappears when he experiences a strong fear or emotions, the fugitive being the "temperature" most prone to anorexia (anorexic being a person who deprives himself almost entirely of food, because he thinks he is too fat, while in reality is too weak). And by extension (quite unhappy) , the fugitive compensates for this "inclination" with the choice of alcohol or drugs (which helps him in his "runaways").

The fugitive often develops skin conditions, from the permanent tendency not to be touched, a skin condition being an unconscious means of not being touched, especially in the place that is affected... The skin being a contact organ, its appearance can attract or reject another person.

The wound of rejection makes the wearer believe that if he lives in his world, he will not suffer, because he will not reject himself and be rejected by others. That's why it often happens to him, when he's in a group, not wanting to participate and make himself invisible, retreating into his shell, into his world. That way the fugitive can easily go into the astral. The fugitive also has often disparate, scattered ideas, and this sensation is present especially in those whose body has a disparate appearance.

If you recognize your rejection wound, it is important to accept that even if your parent really rejects you, this is because your wound has not been healed, and you thus attract that kind of parent or situation. If you continue to believe that everything that happens to you is the fault of others, the wound cannot be healed.

As a consequence of your reaction to your parents, you feel rejected by people of the same sex and are afraid of rejecting people of the opposite sex. And the more fueled a fear is, the faster it will materialize. In conclusion, the stronger the rejection wound in a person, the more situations that will result in it being rejected by someone else.

Other diseases or malaises that manifest themselves predilectly in a fugitive are represented by: diarrhea (often suffering from diarrhea because it rejects food, before the body has had time to properly assimilate nutrients, as it rejects itself or very quickly rejects a situation that might be good for him), arrhythmia (irregularity of heart rate - when their heart starts beating at a crazy speed, "typical" panic; being another way to escape from a difficult situation), cancer (disease associated with grudge or hatred caused by a pain experienced in loneliness - see note 1), respiratory problems (especially when panicking), allergies (an echo of the rejection it feels towards certain foods or substances) , vomiting (direct correlation with food rejection), various phobias (such as agoraphobia), diseases of the pancreas (predisposition to stress often attracts a high consumption of carbohydrates/sugars), depression (or depressive manias that can turn over time into psychosis - due to the precarious balance of the behavioral line under constant pressure of doubts, perfectionist evaluations, etc.).

Note 1: Many of the fugitives "drag" from early childhood hatred towards the same-sex parent (or at least the accusations related to his suffering). At the same time, they find it very difficult to forgive themselves for their resentments towards that parent, hence his preference not to see or not to know that he resented or that he still has a grudge against him. If he doesn't give himself the right to hate his same-sex parent, cancer will come along.

When someone manages to confess that he has resentment towards one of his parents, he will no longer have cancer, it manifests itself especially in people who have suffered a lot and who accuse themselves, not wanting to admit that they hated one of their parents, because admitting that grudge, would be equivalent for them to confess that he is a bad person , heartless. Similarly, it would mean admitting that they reject that parent and not the other way around, that the parent rejects them.

Anyway, don't be scared. Remember that the main cause of the presence of an injury comes from the inability to forgive ourselves what we do to ourselves or what we have done to others. It is hard to forgive ourselves because we usually do not realize that we are resentful of ourselves. we must stop (honestly) to reproach others for everything we do ourselves and we do not want to admit it (so we will no longer attract people to us who show us what we do to others or what we do to ourselves).

Another way to realize that we reject or reject another person is to be ashamed. In fact, we experience a sense of shame when we want to hide or mask behavior (it is normal to find it shameful to have certain behaviors that we reproach others, and, above all, we do not want them to discover that we have the same behaviors as them).

A warm day and the most safe from the blizzard!

Dorin, Merticaru