STUDY - Technical - New Dacian's Medicine
Human's Life - The Childhood (9)
Translation Draft
We've also reached the
completion of the treason wound and the presentation of the
dominatrix's mask...
So, as long as the dominatrix has a tendency to be relatively unstable in his behavior it means that he has a lot to practice in terms of his patience and tolerance, especially when it comes to situations that prevent him from working and doing something in his own way and according to the expectations of others...
Here, in a rather negative sense, it is added that the dominatrix always likes to have the last word, always finding something to add to everything (it must be much done here!!!). This does not mean that he has no communication problems, but on the contrary. It's his fears that make him not communicate clearly...
And these fears are the fear of not convincing the other, of being lied to or of being considered a liar, the fear of the other's anger or of one's own anger, the fear of confessing, of showing vulnerability or of being considered vulnerable, of being manipulated or of being seduced , to be forced to engage in something, etc.
The dominator tends to "predict" the future, constantly, consciously or not, to anticipate everything that will happen in the future, against the background of a very active mind. But all this is due to the "intensity" of the wound, the stronger it is, the greater the desire to control everything so as not to suffer from further betrayals.
The major inconveniences of this attitude are that he wants everything to happen as he intended and thus is full of expectations for the future, the risks of betrayal increasing directly in proportion to the "depth" of the forecasts. In addition, this attitude prevents him from living his present to the fullest, being more concerned with the future.
He is often quick to see what will happen and whether it will happen as he intended, instead of taking advantage of the present moment. Hence the weight of assigning someone a task and trusting that person, for which they delegate tasks related to things or light functions, for which they will not be charged (even by them) if they are not performed correctly and/ or on time.
He will always try to control whether that task meets his expectations and finds himself in difficulty when he has to show someone how to do something, and that person learns slowly (he has no time to waste).
And when a dominatrix deals with the problems of others, he does so with the feeling that they are weaker than him (being a disguised way of showing his own strength - when one does not believe in his own strength, he will do everything to show others how much strength he has). Moreover, the dominatrix is very sensitive, but it is a sensitivity hard to see due to his efforts to make visible only the force.
He also likes to get somewhere early to ensure control over situations. He doesn't like to be late, although this gives him another opportunity to control them, trying to change them. He gets impatient if he finishes a task late or if someone has promised him something and realizes it late.
This difficulty is especially experienced with people of the opposite sex, with whom they get angry more easily than with the others. And as it is demanding, it often happens not to give themselves the time necessary to perform a work and not to give this time to others.
At the same time, considering himself a very hard-working and responsible person, he has great difficulty with laziness (you are not allowed to laze until you have accomplished all your tasks and fulfilled all your commitments). Seeing someone who does nothing, especially if he is a person of the opposite sex, annoys him very much (considering him lazy and untrustworthy).
The dominator very quickly regards others as hypocrites, because of his lack of confidence, whereas, on the contrary, by his manipulative behavior, he is in a position to be considered hypocritical. Besides, the dominatrix feels insulted when someone takes care of his business without him having given his permission.
If someone intervenes or responds to him when he is present, he will also feel insulted because he thinks that the other does not trust him, his abilities. He doesn't realize, instead, that he often happens to step in and speak for others.
The dominator hates the moments when others don't trust him (if someone doesn't trust him they think he's betrayed). He considers himself so responsible and talented that he thinks others should turn to him. However, he doesn't see how hard it is for him to trust others. That's why he only does what he wants.
He tells the others what they want to hear, but he doesn't take their opinion into account, and in the end he does as he pleases, amid the fact that when someone tries to convince him of something, especially a new idea (the dominatrix), he is skeptical.
The hardest thing is to be taken by surprise when he does not have time to prepare (not being prepared risks losing control, therefore he feels he risks being controlled). Since the effect of a surprise is a hard thing for him to experience, his first reaction is to retreat and remain on alert. He has to be prepared for any eventuality and he likes to think in advance about all the possibilities in order to be prepared. He doesn't realize how many times he can change his own plan and put those closest to him in surprising situations, due to the changes made at the last second.
Therefore, the dominatrix cannot bear to be lied to especially because he himself lies very often, but for him those are not lies. His lies, generally more subtle (actually more prepared), are necessary, in his opinion, to achieve their goals or to justify themselves.
For example, he often can't always keep his word, because he engages in something without checking whether he will be able to keep his commitment. will therefore find all sorts of excuses, even that he has completely forgotten that he has made a commitment. Unfortunately, others experience such situations as a lie and as a betrayal.
As a direct consequence, domineering people do not like to find themselves in situations where they do not know how to answer a question. Because of this they are generally interested in knowing many things and like to learn about as many topics as possible.
They are also afraid of commitment, this fear coming from an even greater fear, the fear of giving up a commitment. He believes that not keeping his promise and giving up a commitment are synonymous with betrayal. To these compete stresses the fact that he tends to make too many commitments by feeling almost always restricted.
And since the reputation of the dominatrix is very important, here's where big problems arise for him... When someone says or does something that might affect their good reputation, they feel insulted and angry because they live that situation as a grave betrayal. He'll even end up lying to maintain or save his good reputation.
But the dominatrix's greatest fear is dissociation in any form. He is the kind of person who lives very hard a couple break-up or any form of dissociation, which is perceived as a very serious form of defeat. if he makes the decision to separate himself, he is afraid that he will betray the other and will be accused of being a traitor, if the other makes the decision first, he will accuse him of treason.
What's more, a breakup will remind him that he had no control over the relationship. From this form of imbalance, it seems that people like this experience most breakups, ruptures. This type of behavior "combines" with the difficulty of the dominatrix to make a choice, especially when by making this choice there is a risk of losing something, because then he will no longer have control over the situation. And, the difficulty of separating manifests itself anywhere.
Finally, something quite important needs to be stressed. Studies reveal that a person may have the wound of abandonment without necessarily suffering from the wound of betrayal, while the person suffering from treason also suffers from abandonment. A fear of the same importance is the renegade, for him to be renegade being synonymous with being betrayed.
Instead, he doesn't realize how many times he disowns others, taking them out of his life. This is manifested mainly because of the difficulties of the dominatrix in terms of cowardice, lying and hypocrisy, denying any person behaves in this way. And this renunciation often manifests itself as a result of a breakup, of abandonment.
In terms of nutrition, the dominatrix tends to eat fast because he has no time to waste. When absorbed by a very important task, it can easily forget to eat. But, remarkably, he's the kind who takes the best care of what he eats.
At the level of diseases relatively "typical" of a dominatrix we can remember: agoraphobia (due to its merged part), joint pain, especially the knee, is prone to diseases that signify loss of control over certain parts of the body such as hemorrhages, impotence, diarrhea, etc., paralysis (when the ego finds that the need for total helplessness has been reached), problems of the digestive system and liver, herpes (especially those who come to accuse, consciously or not, the opposite sex of being horrible), and the vast majority of diseases/ diseases with the ending "... (because of their many expectations, impatience, anger and frustrations).
The body is always in transformation, constantly indicating to us what is happening inside us, in our minds, with our ego.
Next are the two posts (days) dedicated to the wound of injustice with the mask of the rigid...
So, as long as the dominatrix has a tendency to be relatively unstable in his behavior it means that he has a lot to practice in terms of his patience and tolerance, especially when it comes to situations that prevent him from working and doing something in his own way and according to the expectations of others...
Here, in a rather negative sense, it is added that the dominatrix always likes to have the last word, always finding something to add to everything (it must be much done here!!!). This does not mean that he has no communication problems, but on the contrary. It's his fears that make him not communicate clearly...
And these fears are the fear of not convincing the other, of being lied to or of being considered a liar, the fear of the other's anger or of one's own anger, the fear of confessing, of showing vulnerability or of being considered vulnerable, of being manipulated or of being seduced , to be forced to engage in something, etc.
The dominator tends to "predict" the future, constantly, consciously or not, to anticipate everything that will happen in the future, against the background of a very active mind. But all this is due to the "intensity" of the wound, the stronger it is, the greater the desire to control everything so as not to suffer from further betrayals.
The major inconveniences of this attitude are that he wants everything to happen as he intended and thus is full of expectations for the future, the risks of betrayal increasing directly in proportion to the "depth" of the forecasts. In addition, this attitude prevents him from living his present to the fullest, being more concerned with the future.
He is often quick to see what will happen and whether it will happen as he intended, instead of taking advantage of the present moment. Hence the weight of assigning someone a task and trusting that person, for which they delegate tasks related to things or light functions, for which they will not be charged (even by them) if they are not performed correctly and/ or on time.
He will always try to control whether that task meets his expectations and finds himself in difficulty when he has to show someone how to do something, and that person learns slowly (he has no time to waste).
And when a dominatrix deals with the problems of others, he does so with the feeling that they are weaker than him (being a disguised way of showing his own strength - when one does not believe in his own strength, he will do everything to show others how much strength he has). Moreover, the dominatrix is very sensitive, but it is a sensitivity hard to see due to his efforts to make visible only the force.
He also likes to get somewhere early to ensure control over situations. He doesn't like to be late, although this gives him another opportunity to control them, trying to change them. He gets impatient if he finishes a task late or if someone has promised him something and realizes it late.
This difficulty is especially experienced with people of the opposite sex, with whom they get angry more easily than with the others. And as it is demanding, it often happens not to give themselves the time necessary to perform a work and not to give this time to others.
At the same time, considering himself a very hard-working and responsible person, he has great difficulty with laziness (you are not allowed to laze until you have accomplished all your tasks and fulfilled all your commitments). Seeing someone who does nothing, especially if he is a person of the opposite sex, annoys him very much (considering him lazy and untrustworthy).
The dominator very quickly regards others as hypocrites, because of his lack of confidence, whereas, on the contrary, by his manipulative behavior, he is in a position to be considered hypocritical. Besides, the dominatrix feels insulted when someone takes care of his business without him having given his permission.
If someone intervenes or responds to him when he is present, he will also feel insulted because he thinks that the other does not trust him, his abilities. He doesn't realize, instead, that he often happens to step in and speak for others.
The dominator hates the moments when others don't trust him (if someone doesn't trust him they think he's betrayed). He considers himself so responsible and talented that he thinks others should turn to him. However, he doesn't see how hard it is for him to trust others. That's why he only does what he wants.
He tells the others what they want to hear, but he doesn't take their opinion into account, and in the end he does as he pleases, amid the fact that when someone tries to convince him of something, especially a new idea (the dominatrix), he is skeptical.
The hardest thing is to be taken by surprise when he does not have time to prepare (not being prepared risks losing control, therefore he feels he risks being controlled). Since the effect of a surprise is a hard thing for him to experience, his first reaction is to retreat and remain on alert. He has to be prepared for any eventuality and he likes to think in advance about all the possibilities in order to be prepared. He doesn't realize how many times he can change his own plan and put those closest to him in surprising situations, due to the changes made at the last second.
Therefore, the dominatrix cannot bear to be lied to especially because he himself lies very often, but for him those are not lies. His lies, generally more subtle (actually more prepared), are necessary, in his opinion, to achieve their goals or to justify themselves.
For example, he often can't always keep his word, because he engages in something without checking whether he will be able to keep his commitment. will therefore find all sorts of excuses, even that he has completely forgotten that he has made a commitment. Unfortunately, others experience such situations as a lie and as a betrayal.
As a direct consequence, domineering people do not like to find themselves in situations where they do not know how to answer a question. Because of this they are generally interested in knowing many things and like to learn about as many topics as possible.
They are also afraid of commitment, this fear coming from an even greater fear, the fear of giving up a commitment. He believes that not keeping his promise and giving up a commitment are synonymous with betrayal. To these compete stresses the fact that he tends to make too many commitments by feeling almost always restricted.
And since the reputation of the dominatrix is very important, here's where big problems arise for him... When someone says or does something that might affect their good reputation, they feel insulted and angry because they live that situation as a grave betrayal. He'll even end up lying to maintain or save his good reputation.
But the dominatrix's greatest fear is dissociation in any form. He is the kind of person who lives very hard a couple break-up or any form of dissociation, which is perceived as a very serious form of defeat. if he makes the decision to separate himself, he is afraid that he will betray the other and will be accused of being a traitor, if the other makes the decision first, he will accuse him of treason.
What's more, a breakup will remind him that he had no control over the relationship. From this form of imbalance, it seems that people like this experience most breakups, ruptures. This type of behavior "combines" with the difficulty of the dominatrix to make a choice, especially when by making this choice there is a risk of losing something, because then he will no longer have control over the situation. And, the difficulty of separating manifests itself anywhere.
Finally, something quite important needs to be stressed. Studies reveal that a person may have the wound of abandonment without necessarily suffering from the wound of betrayal, while the person suffering from treason also suffers from abandonment. A fear of the same importance is the renegade, for him to be renegade being synonymous with being betrayed.
Instead, he doesn't realize how many times he disowns others, taking them out of his life. This is manifested mainly because of the difficulties of the dominatrix in terms of cowardice, lying and hypocrisy, denying any person behaves in this way. And this renunciation often manifests itself as a result of a breakup, of abandonment.
In terms of nutrition, the dominatrix tends to eat fast because he has no time to waste. When absorbed by a very important task, it can easily forget to eat. But, remarkably, he's the kind who takes the best care of what he eats.
At the level of diseases relatively "typical" of a dominatrix we can remember: agoraphobia (due to its merged part), joint pain, especially the knee, is prone to diseases that signify loss of control over certain parts of the body such as hemorrhages, impotence, diarrhea, etc., paralysis (when the ego finds that the need for total helplessness has been reached), problems of the digestive system and liver, herpes (especially those who come to accuse, consciously or not, the opposite sex of being horrible), and the vast majority of diseases/ diseases with the ending "... (because of their many expectations, impatience, anger and frustrations).
The body is always in transformation, constantly indicating to us what is happening inside us, in our minds, with our ego.
Next are the two posts (days) dedicated to the wound of injustice with the mask of the rigid...
Today is Tuesday and
everything is going well!!!
Dorin, Merticaru