STUDY - Technical - New Dacian's Medicine
Human's Life - The Childhood (10)
Translation Draft
Today we're going to
"taste" about the injustice wound with the mask born of it, that
of the rigid...
According to the dictionary, injustice signifies a lack of justice, wrongdoing or unjust situation, inequity, injustice. So it is characteristic of a person or a righteous thing.
For a better understanding of the term, it is good to address what is justice: the moral and legal principle that requires that everyone be given what is due to them and that their rights, fairness, impartiality be respected, the fact that they recognize each other's rights and that they give each one what is rightfully due to them. , rightfully, fair. In short, justice, justice can be defined as appreciation, recognition and respect for each other's rights and merits.
But with people (including their soul) the problem is much more complicated. A person who suffers from injustice is a person who does not feel valued at his fair value, who does not feel respected or who thinks he does not get what he deserves. Someone can also suffer injustice when they receive more than they think they deserve.
But when it all depends on the sum of the "interpretations" about justice of the soul (the one who chooses to return to earth to heal his wound of injustice, choosing parents who will help him to resume contact with that wound) combined with the individual and, last but not least, with the environment how can you customize the statement "I feel wronged"???
Even if we "pull" the wound of injustice before birth, studies reveal that it activates only in the age range between four and six years (when, roughly, it becomes aware that it is a human being, an entity in a whole with its own differences - the so-called period of explosion "why").
The reaction to injustice is to block feelings, believing that this way we avoid the wound and the mask that the child creates in this case is stiffness. But even if a person blocks their feelings, that doesn't mean that person doesn't feel anything. On the contrary, rigid people are very sensitive, but they develop the ability not to feel that sensitivity and not to show it to others.
The child lives this wound especially in the relationship with the same-sex parent. It sphere because of the cold of that parent (real or not, because important is what the child perceives), i.e. because of his inability to feel and express himself.
It can also suffer from that parent's authoritarianism, frequent criticism, severity, intolerance or conformism. And in most cases, that parent also suffers from the same wound (perhaps it is not lived in the same way or under the same circumstances, but it exists, and the child feels it).
Characteristic for the rigid is the fact that it most often tends to cross the arms, thus blocking the region of the solar plexus, so as not to feel, so as not to let others touch. Arms glued to the body, especially from the elbow to the shoulder, hands tight, as well as tight legs, glued to each other, are elements that indicate the closing reaction.
Another way of not feeling is to dress in black or very dark colors (close to black), from the actual tendency to want to disappear (a tendency that is accentuated when the rejection wound is present). rigid mask is distinguished by a straight, rigid and "as perfectly as possible body. The body is well-proportioned, with straight shoulders, the same width as the hips, with round and beautiful buttocks.
Rigid can gain weight (he is afraid to gain weight or belly - in women being abnormal to have no roundness, so a little belly) during his life, but his body will continue to be well proportioned. Rigids like to wear tight clothes around the waist or wear a belt around the waist. This kind of person believes that by tightening his waist, which is in the area of the solar plexus (the area of emotions), he will feel less.
These people are lively, have dynamic movements but their gestures are rigid, without much flexibility and show a closure. They have beautiful skin and bright eyes, the lower jaw is rather tight, the neck straight giving the posture full of pride, etc. They tend to blush very easily especially when they live (or describe) injustice (this easily indicates that it is ashamed of itself, of what it does or does not do).
Due to his exigency towards himself or others, his body, especially his legs and arms, are tense, even during moments of rest (he must make an effort to relax his limbs, to let them relax).
Rigid seeks justice and righteousness at all costs, becoming a perfectionist who will always try to be fair. When he is convinced that he is right before the authority or in front of someone who considers himself an authority in the matter, he will be justified until he is given justice even though he is afraid of authority because, he has learned as a child, that authority is always right.
When others seem to trust him and ask many questions about a situation, while he knows he was honest and fair, he will experience this as an interrogation and perceive it as an injustice. He believes that if what he's doing or saying is perfect, that thing or situation will work automatically and correctly. For him it is very hard to understand that acting in a perfect way according to their own criteria can be at the same time unfair.
This is mainly due to the fact that the sufferer of injustice is more inclined to feel envy for those who have more than them and who, in their opinion, do not deserve. He can also be convinced that others envy him when he has more than them.
Since childhood, the rigid realizes that he is appreciated more for what he does than for what he is. Even if it is not always reality, he is convinced of this. That's why he's getting very good and he's starting to fend for himself very soon. He does everything to avoid problems, and even if he has plenty of them, he prefers to say he doesn't have them, to avoid feeling the suffering about them.
He is very optimistic, often too optimistic and does not ask for help until the last minute. When he's excited, he doesn't want to show this, but we can tell by the tone of the voice that becomes dry and inflexible. he can use laughter to hide his sensitivity and emotions and he can laugh at nothing for something that others don't find funny.
Rigid often has a problem with lack of time (but for reasons different from dominatrix), not having enough time because he wants everything to be perfect. For this reason, even if he doesn't like to be late, he will often because he wastes a lot of time preparing. However it is dominated by the desire to solve things, problems immediately, and for this reason it does not give itself time to feel what is happening, to give itself the right to be human and to continue to have things to solve.
Given that he will always seek justice, he wants to make sure he is worthy of what he receives. Merit is important for a rigid and means to obtain a reward following a performance achieved. If he gets much, without having worked too hard, he thinks he doesn't deserve it and does it in such a way as to share or redirect what he has received. Those who are very rigid make it so that they receive nothing, because, in their opinion, they must be extraordinary to deserve a reward.
And so the fear of being wrong is very strong in the case of a rigid thus paying attention to perfection to which it "adheres" totally. if it's not perfect, it'll have to control itself so you don't let the mistake, the error, the defect it discovered. does not realize, once more, that it is unfair to himself because he demands too much from him.
This fear of not being mistaken causes a rigid person to often find himself in situations where he has a choice to make because the more afraid someone is, the more he will attract situations corresponding to that fear. And all this is accentuated by his behavior driven by the fear of choosing badly (the rigid often doubting himself) often asking himself whether the choices he makes are the best for him, the most correct.
All this competes with a behavior quite typical of the rigid, represented by the difficulty of respecting its limits and, above all, in recognizing them. Since he doesn't take the time to feel whether or not what he's doing meets his needs, he often does too much and eventually gives in (especially since he doesn't even ask for help when he finds himself in difficulty, preferring to act on his own to be sure of the perfection of the result). That's why the rigid is most likely to suffer from physical exhaustion.
Rigid people are very demanding of themselves, in most aspects of life, and have a great capacity to control themselves and impose tasks. He seeks so much perfection that he tends to control himself as best he can in any involvement with himself or his exterior.
In addition he has typical guilt behavior if he does nothing while someone else is doing it, considering it as unfair (often shameful). So he gets to perform and demands so much from him that others will demand as much.
Religion can have a greater impact on a rigid than on those suffering from other wounds. Good and evil, fairness and unfairness are very important notions for him, these being the main principles by which he guides his life. He is attracted to all that is noble, respect and honor being very important notions for him. He is ready to make all the necessary efforts and sacrifices, even though the rigid does not regard these things as sacrifices...
See you tomorrow! ... When we complete the mask of the rigid and also this section of childhood...
According to the dictionary, injustice signifies a lack of justice, wrongdoing or unjust situation, inequity, injustice. So it is characteristic of a person or a righteous thing.
For a better understanding of the term, it is good to address what is justice: the moral and legal principle that requires that everyone be given what is due to them and that their rights, fairness, impartiality be respected, the fact that they recognize each other's rights and that they give each one what is rightfully due to them. , rightfully, fair. In short, justice, justice can be defined as appreciation, recognition and respect for each other's rights and merits.
But with people (including their soul) the problem is much more complicated. A person who suffers from injustice is a person who does not feel valued at his fair value, who does not feel respected or who thinks he does not get what he deserves. Someone can also suffer injustice when they receive more than they think they deserve.
But when it all depends on the sum of the "interpretations" about justice of the soul (the one who chooses to return to earth to heal his wound of injustice, choosing parents who will help him to resume contact with that wound) combined with the individual and, last but not least, with the environment how can you customize the statement "I feel wronged"???
Even if we "pull" the wound of injustice before birth, studies reveal that it activates only in the age range between four and six years (when, roughly, it becomes aware that it is a human being, an entity in a whole with its own differences - the so-called period of explosion "why").
The reaction to injustice is to block feelings, believing that this way we avoid the wound and the mask that the child creates in this case is stiffness. But even if a person blocks their feelings, that doesn't mean that person doesn't feel anything. On the contrary, rigid people are very sensitive, but they develop the ability not to feel that sensitivity and not to show it to others.
The child lives this wound especially in the relationship with the same-sex parent. It sphere because of the cold of that parent (real or not, because important is what the child perceives), i.e. because of his inability to feel and express himself.
It can also suffer from that parent's authoritarianism, frequent criticism, severity, intolerance or conformism. And in most cases, that parent also suffers from the same wound (perhaps it is not lived in the same way or under the same circumstances, but it exists, and the child feels it).
Characteristic for the rigid is the fact that it most often tends to cross the arms, thus blocking the region of the solar plexus, so as not to feel, so as not to let others touch. Arms glued to the body, especially from the elbow to the shoulder, hands tight, as well as tight legs, glued to each other, are elements that indicate the closing reaction.
Another way of not feeling is to dress in black or very dark colors (close to black), from the actual tendency to want to disappear (a tendency that is accentuated when the rejection wound is present). rigid mask is distinguished by a straight, rigid and "as perfectly as possible body. The body is well-proportioned, with straight shoulders, the same width as the hips, with round and beautiful buttocks.
Rigid can gain weight (he is afraid to gain weight or belly - in women being abnormal to have no roundness, so a little belly) during his life, but his body will continue to be well proportioned. Rigids like to wear tight clothes around the waist or wear a belt around the waist. This kind of person believes that by tightening his waist, which is in the area of the solar plexus (the area of emotions), he will feel less.
These people are lively, have dynamic movements but their gestures are rigid, without much flexibility and show a closure. They have beautiful skin and bright eyes, the lower jaw is rather tight, the neck straight giving the posture full of pride, etc. They tend to blush very easily especially when they live (or describe) injustice (this easily indicates that it is ashamed of itself, of what it does or does not do).
Due to his exigency towards himself or others, his body, especially his legs and arms, are tense, even during moments of rest (he must make an effort to relax his limbs, to let them relax).
Rigid seeks justice and righteousness at all costs, becoming a perfectionist who will always try to be fair. When he is convinced that he is right before the authority or in front of someone who considers himself an authority in the matter, he will be justified until he is given justice even though he is afraid of authority because, he has learned as a child, that authority is always right.
When others seem to trust him and ask many questions about a situation, while he knows he was honest and fair, he will experience this as an interrogation and perceive it as an injustice. He believes that if what he's doing or saying is perfect, that thing or situation will work automatically and correctly. For him it is very hard to understand that acting in a perfect way according to their own criteria can be at the same time unfair.
This is mainly due to the fact that the sufferer of injustice is more inclined to feel envy for those who have more than them and who, in their opinion, do not deserve. He can also be convinced that others envy him when he has more than them.
Since childhood, the rigid realizes that he is appreciated more for what he does than for what he is. Even if it is not always reality, he is convinced of this. That's why he's getting very good and he's starting to fend for himself very soon. He does everything to avoid problems, and even if he has plenty of them, he prefers to say he doesn't have them, to avoid feeling the suffering about them.
He is very optimistic, often too optimistic and does not ask for help until the last minute. When he's excited, he doesn't want to show this, but we can tell by the tone of the voice that becomes dry and inflexible. he can use laughter to hide his sensitivity and emotions and he can laugh at nothing for something that others don't find funny.
Rigid often has a problem with lack of time (but for reasons different from dominatrix), not having enough time because he wants everything to be perfect. For this reason, even if he doesn't like to be late, he will often because he wastes a lot of time preparing. However it is dominated by the desire to solve things, problems immediately, and for this reason it does not give itself time to feel what is happening, to give itself the right to be human and to continue to have things to solve.
Given that he will always seek justice, he wants to make sure he is worthy of what he receives. Merit is important for a rigid and means to obtain a reward following a performance achieved. If he gets much, without having worked too hard, he thinks he doesn't deserve it and does it in such a way as to share or redirect what he has received. Those who are very rigid make it so that they receive nothing, because, in their opinion, they must be extraordinary to deserve a reward.
And so the fear of being wrong is very strong in the case of a rigid thus paying attention to perfection to which it "adheres" totally. if it's not perfect, it'll have to control itself so you don't let the mistake, the error, the defect it discovered. does not realize, once more, that it is unfair to himself because he demands too much from him.
This fear of not being mistaken causes a rigid person to often find himself in situations where he has a choice to make because the more afraid someone is, the more he will attract situations corresponding to that fear. And all this is accentuated by his behavior driven by the fear of choosing badly (the rigid often doubting himself) often asking himself whether the choices he makes are the best for him, the most correct.
All this competes with a behavior quite typical of the rigid, represented by the difficulty of respecting its limits and, above all, in recognizing them. Since he doesn't take the time to feel whether or not what he's doing meets his needs, he often does too much and eventually gives in (especially since he doesn't even ask for help when he finds himself in difficulty, preferring to act on his own to be sure of the perfection of the result). That's why the rigid is most likely to suffer from physical exhaustion.
Rigid people are very demanding of themselves, in most aspects of life, and have a great capacity to control themselves and impose tasks. He seeks so much perfection that he tends to control himself as best he can in any involvement with himself or his exterior.
In addition he has typical guilt behavior if he does nothing while someone else is doing it, considering it as unfair (often shameful). So he gets to perform and demands so much from him that others will demand as much.
Religion can have a greater impact on a rigid than on those suffering from other wounds. Good and evil, fairness and unfairness are very important notions for him, these being the main principles by which he guides his life. He is attracted to all that is noble, respect and honor being very important notions for him. He is ready to make all the necessary efforts and sacrifices, even though the rigid does not regard these things as sacrifices...
See you tomorrow! ... When we complete the mask of the rigid and also this section of childhood...
A day of spring and full
of love and gratitude!!!
Dorin, Merticaru