STUDY - Technical - New Dacian's Medicine
Human's Life - Adolescence (2)
Translation Draft
Let's move on to the more
serious things about adolescence!
We start with the rejection wound and the mask drawn, that of the fugitive.
From the very beginning it is good to point out that everything I presented at the fugitive's childhood remains valid for most of the individual's life (until the wound is closed, without reactivating it) and, most of the time (in case of non-resolution of wounds) until the end of the biological life and the transfer of the soul to a new dimension (existence, reincarnation).
Now, in adolescence, the often fragmented and incomplete body (if you remember, the one who lacks a piece such as the buttocks, breasts, etc.) of the fugitive begins to become a goal "to correct". Everything is a function directly proportional to the ambitions and objectives that each proposes according to the environment in which it is inserted (especially if in it there are beautiful or beautiful that constitute a landmark as irresistible as unconscious).
This gives rise to many "perceptions" but the most devastating are, on the side of the possessor of that body, contempt, and on the side of those around, mercy. There is no point in describing what side effects arise from these "considerations" in a teenager who wants to love or be loved, especially since he drags from childhood the fact that, for him, being loved means "being suffocated".
And in all this he "gathers" his perceptions of the material world, which he does not link to "be able to run away at any time". This detachment from the material world will cause him great difficulties in his sex life, he tends to consider that sexuality interferes with spirituality and has difficulty accepting that they may have needs related to sexuality, just like any normal human being.
Thus, they attract situations in which they are rejected sexually, by the partner, or deprive themselves of sexuality with the most negative consequences possible (both for him and for those around him). Too bad, because the fugitive is most inclined to detect where to direct his sexual behavior, towards the partner or towards actual orgasm, in order to "benefit" from the maximum bilateral sexual pleasure (the problems that arise here are related to his ability to feel whether he makes orgasm an object of both his intention and his attention, or if it is appropriate that he remains an effect of unintentional giving and unconditional surrender to the partner).
Then, due to his permanent tendency towards running away, he will generally have very few friends, so coworkers, business partners, relationships. He is considered a loner and is left alone to fend for himself, often these considerations having the gift of attracting isolated, monotonous hierarchical positions. And the more he isolates himself, the more invisible he will seem and enter a vicious circle becoming more and more alone, thus finding reason to feel rejected (and to proceed to what he knows best, to flee).
Another disadvantage of the fugitive individual is that he speaks very little and, when he does, begins to "value himself", often being interpreted as a vain individual and, why not, boastful. In addition, the fugitive hardly expresses his opinions when not asked, because he believes that others will feel confronted and reject him. Then, if he wants to ask someone for something, and that person seems busy or "promises" that he won't participate in the dialogue, the fugitive will give up and say nothing.
He knows what he wants, but he doesn't dare ask, considering it's not important enough to "disrupt" the other. Many adolescents end up not seeking advice (advice, simple confession, etc.) to anyone (including their parents) for fear that they will not be understood. At least in love they believe that to be understood is to be loved, their conviction being "to love means to accept the other even if we do not understand him"... And how many dramas arise from a lack of dialogue or unconditional acceptance, at least initially, of a partner???
The fugitive's fears that prevent him from communicating clearly and expressing his demands are: the fear of not being interesting, of being considered null or worthless, of being misunderstood, and the fear that the other is listening to him out of obligation or politeness. And another way to reject or reject another person is the shame that occurs when we want to hide or mask behavior.
The teenager living in a dynamic world, based on dialogue, collaboration, etc. will be able to solve many of the problems with dialogues, exchanges of experience, etc. In addition, it is normal to have certain behaviors that we reproach others (especially since we want them not to discover that we have the same behaviors as them). Communication is here "the last solution"... All to avoid the ease with which the fugitive passes from great love to deep hatred.
From a professional point of view (occupations, career or whatever you want to think), the fugitive has great problems with his "interpretations" about his value (strong enough belief that he is insignificant, null, worthless). This will attract new and new "fugitive themes" of it, having great difficulty having a continuity in what it does.
And that's even though the fugitive is in a constant search for perfection in everything he does (because he thinks that if he makes a mistake he will be judged and he detests situations like this). But this search for perfection causes a kind of slowness in action, with any task to be performed taking up more time than necessary (or allowed). This will attract new rejection situations from others.
He has a penchant for intellectual or artistic occupations, having an extraordinary ability to "go into the astral with ease" (this being a real advantage for those who have solitary artistic occupations, such as painters, writers, composers, etc.).
Here, in everyday life, the great weakness of the fugitive, the panic, begins to manifest itself. And as we happen to attract the kind of situations or people we're afraid of, the fugitive often attracts situations or people who cause him panic. His fear will make the situation even more dramatic and, if he does not fight his fears and the situations thus created he will always find good reasons to justify his departures, running away, from someone, from family, from work, etc.
If you recognize your rejection wound, it's important to accept that what you're experiencing happens because your wound hasn't been healed, and you attract these kinds of situations. And the main cause of an injury comes from the inability to forgive ourselves what we do to ourselves or what we have done to others.
If you continue to believe that everything that happens to you is the fault of others, your wound cannot be healed. And as a consequence of your reactions you will feel rejected by people of the same sex and you will be afraid of rejecting people of the opposite sex.
Remember, the more we feed a fear, the faster it will materialize! The stronger the rejection wound in a person, the more situations that will be rejected by someone else. just as important is not to forget that our ego is doing everything possible so that we don't see our wounds, because on an unconscious level we assigned it this mission.
We are so afraid to relive the pain associated with each wound that we hesitate by all means that we have to recognize that if we experience a situation of rejection, this is because we reject ourselves. Those who reject us appear in our lives to show us how much we reject ourselves. And what is harder is to forgive ourselves because we don't usually realize that we are resentful of ourselves.
And, spiritual laws say that as long as a person has not experienced in love, he will have to return to earth to relive the same experience, coming back having the same souls but with different roles. All this to give us a chance to definitively solve what we have failed to regulate in our previous lives.
And finally, which I will "promote" repetitively, sadistically, whenever I think it is necessary, I will give you a simple quote from Victor Frankl: "Do not aim for success, for the more you want it and the more you make it a goal, the more you will miss it!
For success, such happiness, cannot be traced. He must follow, and even so, as an unintentional side effect, from that dedication of man to a cause greater than himself or as a byproduct of self-giving to another person. Happiness or success must come by itself, you must let them occur by not taking care of them.
You must listen to what your conscience tells you to do and carry out that thing as best you can. Then you will experience the moments when success or happiness will follow you precisely because you have forgotten to think about them!!!" (either this and long-term, I repeat, in the long term).
We start with the rejection wound and the mask drawn, that of the fugitive.
From the very beginning it is good to point out that everything I presented at the fugitive's childhood remains valid for most of the individual's life (until the wound is closed, without reactivating it) and, most of the time (in case of non-resolution of wounds) until the end of the biological life and the transfer of the soul to a new dimension (existence, reincarnation).
Now, in adolescence, the often fragmented and incomplete body (if you remember, the one who lacks a piece such as the buttocks, breasts, etc.) of the fugitive begins to become a goal "to correct". Everything is a function directly proportional to the ambitions and objectives that each proposes according to the environment in which it is inserted (especially if in it there are beautiful or beautiful that constitute a landmark as irresistible as unconscious).
This gives rise to many "perceptions" but the most devastating are, on the side of the possessor of that body, contempt, and on the side of those around, mercy. There is no point in describing what side effects arise from these "considerations" in a teenager who wants to love or be loved, especially since he drags from childhood the fact that, for him, being loved means "being suffocated".
And in all this he "gathers" his perceptions of the material world, which he does not link to "be able to run away at any time". This detachment from the material world will cause him great difficulties in his sex life, he tends to consider that sexuality interferes with spirituality and has difficulty accepting that they may have needs related to sexuality, just like any normal human being.
Thus, they attract situations in which they are rejected sexually, by the partner, or deprive themselves of sexuality with the most negative consequences possible (both for him and for those around him). Too bad, because the fugitive is most inclined to detect where to direct his sexual behavior, towards the partner or towards actual orgasm, in order to "benefit" from the maximum bilateral sexual pleasure (the problems that arise here are related to his ability to feel whether he makes orgasm an object of both his intention and his attention, or if it is appropriate that he remains an effect of unintentional giving and unconditional surrender to the partner).
Then, due to his permanent tendency towards running away, he will generally have very few friends, so coworkers, business partners, relationships. He is considered a loner and is left alone to fend for himself, often these considerations having the gift of attracting isolated, monotonous hierarchical positions. And the more he isolates himself, the more invisible he will seem and enter a vicious circle becoming more and more alone, thus finding reason to feel rejected (and to proceed to what he knows best, to flee).
Another disadvantage of the fugitive individual is that he speaks very little and, when he does, begins to "value himself", often being interpreted as a vain individual and, why not, boastful. In addition, the fugitive hardly expresses his opinions when not asked, because he believes that others will feel confronted and reject him. Then, if he wants to ask someone for something, and that person seems busy or "promises" that he won't participate in the dialogue, the fugitive will give up and say nothing.
He knows what he wants, but he doesn't dare ask, considering it's not important enough to "disrupt" the other. Many adolescents end up not seeking advice (advice, simple confession, etc.) to anyone (including their parents) for fear that they will not be understood. At least in love they believe that to be understood is to be loved, their conviction being "to love means to accept the other even if we do not understand him"... And how many dramas arise from a lack of dialogue or unconditional acceptance, at least initially, of a partner???
The fugitive's fears that prevent him from communicating clearly and expressing his demands are: the fear of not being interesting, of being considered null or worthless, of being misunderstood, and the fear that the other is listening to him out of obligation or politeness. And another way to reject or reject another person is the shame that occurs when we want to hide or mask behavior.
The teenager living in a dynamic world, based on dialogue, collaboration, etc. will be able to solve many of the problems with dialogues, exchanges of experience, etc. In addition, it is normal to have certain behaviors that we reproach others (especially since we want them not to discover that we have the same behaviors as them). Communication is here "the last solution"... All to avoid the ease with which the fugitive passes from great love to deep hatred.
From a professional point of view (occupations, career or whatever you want to think), the fugitive has great problems with his "interpretations" about his value (strong enough belief that he is insignificant, null, worthless). This will attract new and new "fugitive themes" of it, having great difficulty having a continuity in what it does.
And that's even though the fugitive is in a constant search for perfection in everything he does (because he thinks that if he makes a mistake he will be judged and he detests situations like this). But this search for perfection causes a kind of slowness in action, with any task to be performed taking up more time than necessary (or allowed). This will attract new rejection situations from others.
He has a penchant for intellectual or artistic occupations, having an extraordinary ability to "go into the astral with ease" (this being a real advantage for those who have solitary artistic occupations, such as painters, writers, composers, etc.).
Here, in everyday life, the great weakness of the fugitive, the panic, begins to manifest itself. And as we happen to attract the kind of situations or people we're afraid of, the fugitive often attracts situations or people who cause him panic. His fear will make the situation even more dramatic and, if he does not fight his fears and the situations thus created he will always find good reasons to justify his departures, running away, from someone, from family, from work, etc.
If you recognize your rejection wound, it's important to accept that what you're experiencing happens because your wound hasn't been healed, and you attract these kinds of situations. And the main cause of an injury comes from the inability to forgive ourselves what we do to ourselves or what we have done to others.
If you continue to believe that everything that happens to you is the fault of others, your wound cannot be healed. And as a consequence of your reactions you will feel rejected by people of the same sex and you will be afraid of rejecting people of the opposite sex.
Remember, the more we feed a fear, the faster it will materialize! The stronger the rejection wound in a person, the more situations that will be rejected by someone else. just as important is not to forget that our ego is doing everything possible so that we don't see our wounds, because on an unconscious level we assigned it this mission.
We are so afraid to relive the pain associated with each wound that we hesitate by all means that we have to recognize that if we experience a situation of rejection, this is because we reject ourselves. Those who reject us appear in our lives to show us how much we reject ourselves. And what is harder is to forgive ourselves because we don't usually realize that we are resentful of ourselves.
And, spiritual laws say that as long as a person has not experienced in love, he will have to return to earth to relive the same experience, coming back having the same souls but with different roles. All this to give us a chance to definitively solve what we have failed to regulate in our previous lives.
And finally, which I will "promote" repetitively, sadistically, whenever I think it is necessary, I will give you a simple quote from Victor Frankl: "Do not aim for success, for the more you want it and the more you make it a goal, the more you will miss it!
For success, such happiness, cannot be traced. He must follow, and even so, as an unintentional side effect, from that dedication of man to a cause greater than himself or as a byproduct of self-giving to another person. Happiness or success must come by itself, you must let them occur by not taking care of them.
You must listen to what your conscience tells you to do and carry out that thing as best you can. Then you will experience the moments when success or happiness will follow you precisely because you have forgotten to think about them!!!" (either this and long-term, I repeat, in the long term).
Faith, love and gratitude
to all! Ehhh, and make the most of the rest of them!
Dorin, Merticaru