STUDY - Technical - New Dacian's Medicine
Human's Life - Adolescence (6)
Translation Draft
Today it's the turn of the
last adolescent analysis where I'm going to present the stiff
and his wound of injustice...
From the very beginning it is good to point out that everything I presented at the childhood of the rigid remains valid for the greatest of the life of the individual (until the closure of the wound, without reactivating it) and, most of the time (in case of non-resolution of wounds) until the end of biological life and the transfer of the soul into a new dimension (existence, reincarnation).
Rigid is distinguished by a straight, rigid and "as perfectly as possible body. The body is well-proportioned, with straight shoulders, the same width as the hips. Even if he gets fat, his body will remain well proportioned (the rigid is constantly afraid to gain weight, doing everything so as not to gain weight). Men as well as women have beautiful shapes (pleasant curves, small waist, etc.), appetizing, appealing.
They're lively people, with dynamic movements but with rigid gestures, without much flexibility and show a closure, as if they have difficulty opening their arms entirely. have beautiful skin and bright look, the lower jaw is rather tight, the neck straight and proud.
Rigid people are very demanding of themselves, in most aspects of life, having a great capacity to control themselves and impose certain tasks. Because of this their body, especially their legs and arms are tense, even during moments of rest, it is necessary to make a small effort to relax, to let the limbs relax.
The fact that it is appreciated more for what it does than for what it is will give the stiff teenager wings (even if it is not reality). That's why he's getting very good and he's starting to fend for himself very soon.
He does everything to avoid problems, and even if he has plenty of them, he prefers not to admit it, in order to avoid feeling the suffering related to them. But he is very optimistic, often too optimistic, and this will attract countless problems from those around him (especially since he tends not to ask for help until the last minute).
And, problems, they also arise because the rigid has a difficulty not only in respecting his limits but, above all, in recognizing him. Since he doesn't take the time to feel whether or not what he's doing meets his needs, he often does too much and ultimately gives in. And when he does, he does it masterfully, drawing the worst out of the situations that have remained unresolved.
From the point of view of life as a partner or with an intimate partner, the rigid is a person who has a difficulty in letting himself be loved and showing his love. He often thinks too late about what he would have wanted to say or the signals of affection he would have wanted to show to the one he loves.
He frequently proposes to do so when he sees him again, but forgets when such an opportunity arises. Therefore, he is considered a cold, devoid of affection. Acting in this way is unfair to others and especially to him, because he cannot express what he really feels. In addition, being very sensitive (psychologically speaking) avoids being touched by others. This fear of being touched or affected by other people is strong enough to increase the feeling of cold that spreads to anyone around it.
In his sex life, the rigid often has trouble abandoning himself, feeling pleasure, having problems and expressing the tenderness he feels. He's still the kind of guy who looks the sexiest. Rigid women are really seductive, meaning they like to attract men to coldly reject them if they think things have gone too far.
During adolescence, it is the rigid one who will control herself, wanting to remain pure and perfect for the ideal man. He easily creates an ideal of unreal sexual relationship. When she decides to have a relationship, she is usually disappointed because it does not correspond to her ideal. When a rigid person has difficulty making a commitment to a relationship, this stems from her fear of being wrong in choosing a partner.
And, rigidly, he's the person who maintains several taboos on a sexual level, because notions of right and wrong lead his sex life. And the stronger the wound, the more rigid that person is and will find it more difficult to reach orgasm, the woman is very able to simulate pleasure and the man can suffer from premature ejaculation or even impotence, depending on the ability to please herself in life.
And from there comes the greatest fear of the rigid, the cold, the indifference. He has as many problems accepting his own cold as accepting others, even if he does his best to make it look warm. Besides, he considers himself a warm person and does not realize that others may consider him cold and insensitive.
He is not aware that he avoids contact with his sensibility so as not to show his vulnerability. He cannot accept this indifference, because that would mean being heartless, that is, unfair. That is why it is very important for the rigid to be told that he is good, i.e. good at what he does and full of kindness. In the first case he'll think he's perfect, and in the second, warm. And he finds it hard to see the cold of others.
Rigid is an individual who protects himself by any obvious means. He makes it both posturally, the rigid being the one who most often has the tendency to cross his arms (blocking the solar plexus so as not to feel), and manifest, dressing in black (another way of not feeling, of disappearing as easily), behaving selfishly, seeking justice and righteousness (mostly only his) at all costs.
That's where the fear of being wrong comes in, which is very strong in the case of a rigid. Behaviorally, this fear attracts the ease of blushing without even realizing it. This reflex indicates that the person is ashamed of something, a situation, of himself or of what he or she is doing or not doing.
Often, the fear of being wrong often causes the rigid person to find himself in situations where he has to make a choice. And, as I've said so many times, it will attract situations corresponding to that fear.
Always trying to be fair will quickly and surely get to being a perfectionist, having the belief that what he does or says is correct (or that everything he does or says is automatically correct). For him it is very hard to understand that acting in a perfect way according to his own criteria can be at the same time unfair.
In addition, his perfectionism attracts the typical problems of lack of time, especially due to his practices of wasting a lot of time on preparations. That's why he likes people around him to be aware of everything he does and has to do. Hence the increased importance that gives it to the notion of merit, which is very important for the rigid.
In addition, given that he will always seek justice, he wants to ensure that he deserves (that he is worthy) what he receives, his goal being to ensure that he obtains a reward from his performance. And if he gets much, without having worked too hard, he thinks he's not worth it and does it in such a way that he loses or trades what he got.
Those who are very rigid make it so that they receive nothing, because, in their opinion, they must be extraordinary to receive a reward. But more causing problems is his insistence on any authority when he is right. When he's convinced he's right, he'll risk anything so he doesn't lose the reward of his excellence.
And, he doesn't like to be told he's lucky, because, for him, it's not the right thing to do. He wants to deserve everything that happens to him. if someone tells him that he is lucky and did not deserve what he has achieved, he will feel very bad and indebted to someone (and will do everything to not keep what he has achieved only for himself). Hence another characteristic of the rigid, represented by the fact that he often finds it more unfair to be favoured than to be disadvantaged over others.
In such a situation certain rigids will do their best to lose or stop what they offer, others think they are due to offer something in return and, most, signal the feeling of this injustice by overtly complaining about it.
This sense of justice makes it particularly accessible by religion or other relatively similar ethical patterns. Good, evil, fairness or unfairness are very important notions for him, even if they often seem only a "lifeline" necessary for his gestures or actions. Moreover, these are the principles by which he guides his life, which is easy to note in the language that uses it.
That's why he's attracted to all that's noble. respect and honor are very important notions for him. He's impressed by people with important positions, and if he knows he can get a certain title, he becomes even more important. He is ready to make all the necessary efforts and sacrifices, although the rigid does not regard these things as sacrifices.
Another problem of rigidity is the difficulty of distinguishing between rigidity and discipline. A rigid person forgets the need from which he left to cling rather to the means by which he comes to fulfill that need.
A disciplined person will find a way to fulfill a need without forgetting that need. And, in combination with the penchant for perfection in everything, it's hard to avoid stress, with all the problems attracted to it.
Finally it should be remembered that the rigid has as the most commonly experienced emotion, anger, especially against him. And his first reaction when he is angry is to attack someone else, even if the anger is felt against himself (even if in reality he is angry with him because he did not see what was right or did not do what had to be done).
Remember, the more we feed a fear, the faster it will materialize! The stronger the injustice wound in a person, the more situations that will result in someone else being wronged.
Just as important is remember that our ego is doing everything possible so that we don't see our wounds, because on an unconscious level we assigned it this mission. We are so afraid to relive the pain associated with each wound that we hesitate by all means that we have to recognize that if we live in a situation of injustice, this is because we wrong ourselves.
Those who wrong us appear in our lives to show us how much we wrong ourselves. And what is harder is to forgive ourselves because we don't usually realize that we are resentful of ourselves.
And, spiritual laws say that as long as a person has not experienced in love, he will have to return to earth to relive the same experience, coming back having the same souls but with different roles. All this to give us a chance to definitively solve what we have failed to regulate in our previous lives.
And finally, which I will "promote" repetitively, sadistically, whenever I think it is necessary, I will give you a simple quote from Victor Frankl: "Do not aim for success, for the more you want it and the more you make it a goal, the more you will miss it! For success, such happiness, cannot be traced.
He must follow, and even so, as an unintentional side effect, from that dedication of man to a cause greater than himself or as a byproduct of self-giving to another person. Happiness or success must come by itself, you must let them occur by not taking care of them.
You must listen to what your conscience tells you to do and carry out that thing as best you can. Then you will experience the moments when success or happiness will follow you precisely because you have forgotten to think about them!!!" (either this and long-term, I repeat, in the long term).
From the very beginning it is good to point out that everything I presented at the childhood of the rigid remains valid for the greatest of the life of the individual (until the closure of the wound, without reactivating it) and, most of the time (in case of non-resolution of wounds) until the end of biological life and the transfer of the soul into a new dimension (existence, reincarnation).
Rigid is distinguished by a straight, rigid and "as perfectly as possible body. The body is well-proportioned, with straight shoulders, the same width as the hips. Even if he gets fat, his body will remain well proportioned (the rigid is constantly afraid to gain weight, doing everything so as not to gain weight). Men as well as women have beautiful shapes (pleasant curves, small waist, etc.), appetizing, appealing.
They're lively people, with dynamic movements but with rigid gestures, without much flexibility and show a closure, as if they have difficulty opening their arms entirely. have beautiful skin and bright look, the lower jaw is rather tight, the neck straight and proud.
Rigid people are very demanding of themselves, in most aspects of life, having a great capacity to control themselves and impose certain tasks. Because of this their body, especially their legs and arms are tense, even during moments of rest, it is necessary to make a small effort to relax, to let the limbs relax.
The fact that it is appreciated more for what it does than for what it is will give the stiff teenager wings (even if it is not reality). That's why he's getting very good and he's starting to fend for himself very soon.
He does everything to avoid problems, and even if he has plenty of them, he prefers not to admit it, in order to avoid feeling the suffering related to them. But he is very optimistic, often too optimistic, and this will attract countless problems from those around him (especially since he tends not to ask for help until the last minute).
And, problems, they also arise because the rigid has a difficulty not only in respecting his limits but, above all, in recognizing him. Since he doesn't take the time to feel whether or not what he's doing meets his needs, he often does too much and ultimately gives in. And when he does, he does it masterfully, drawing the worst out of the situations that have remained unresolved.
From the point of view of life as a partner or with an intimate partner, the rigid is a person who has a difficulty in letting himself be loved and showing his love. He often thinks too late about what he would have wanted to say or the signals of affection he would have wanted to show to the one he loves.
He frequently proposes to do so when he sees him again, but forgets when such an opportunity arises. Therefore, he is considered a cold, devoid of affection. Acting in this way is unfair to others and especially to him, because he cannot express what he really feels. In addition, being very sensitive (psychologically speaking) avoids being touched by others. This fear of being touched or affected by other people is strong enough to increase the feeling of cold that spreads to anyone around it.
In his sex life, the rigid often has trouble abandoning himself, feeling pleasure, having problems and expressing the tenderness he feels. He's still the kind of guy who looks the sexiest. Rigid women are really seductive, meaning they like to attract men to coldly reject them if they think things have gone too far.
During adolescence, it is the rigid one who will control herself, wanting to remain pure and perfect for the ideal man. He easily creates an ideal of unreal sexual relationship. When she decides to have a relationship, she is usually disappointed because it does not correspond to her ideal. When a rigid person has difficulty making a commitment to a relationship, this stems from her fear of being wrong in choosing a partner.
And, rigidly, he's the person who maintains several taboos on a sexual level, because notions of right and wrong lead his sex life. And the stronger the wound, the more rigid that person is and will find it more difficult to reach orgasm, the woman is very able to simulate pleasure and the man can suffer from premature ejaculation or even impotence, depending on the ability to please herself in life.
And from there comes the greatest fear of the rigid, the cold, the indifference. He has as many problems accepting his own cold as accepting others, even if he does his best to make it look warm. Besides, he considers himself a warm person and does not realize that others may consider him cold and insensitive.
He is not aware that he avoids contact with his sensibility so as not to show his vulnerability. He cannot accept this indifference, because that would mean being heartless, that is, unfair. That is why it is very important for the rigid to be told that he is good, i.e. good at what he does and full of kindness. In the first case he'll think he's perfect, and in the second, warm. And he finds it hard to see the cold of others.
Rigid is an individual who protects himself by any obvious means. He makes it both posturally, the rigid being the one who most often has the tendency to cross his arms (blocking the solar plexus so as not to feel), and manifest, dressing in black (another way of not feeling, of disappearing as easily), behaving selfishly, seeking justice and righteousness (mostly only his) at all costs.
That's where the fear of being wrong comes in, which is very strong in the case of a rigid. Behaviorally, this fear attracts the ease of blushing without even realizing it. This reflex indicates that the person is ashamed of something, a situation, of himself or of what he or she is doing or not doing.
Often, the fear of being wrong often causes the rigid person to find himself in situations where he has to make a choice. And, as I've said so many times, it will attract situations corresponding to that fear.
Always trying to be fair will quickly and surely get to being a perfectionist, having the belief that what he does or says is correct (or that everything he does or says is automatically correct). For him it is very hard to understand that acting in a perfect way according to his own criteria can be at the same time unfair.
In addition, his perfectionism attracts the typical problems of lack of time, especially due to his practices of wasting a lot of time on preparations. That's why he likes people around him to be aware of everything he does and has to do. Hence the increased importance that gives it to the notion of merit, which is very important for the rigid.
In addition, given that he will always seek justice, he wants to ensure that he deserves (that he is worthy) what he receives, his goal being to ensure that he obtains a reward from his performance. And if he gets much, without having worked too hard, he thinks he's not worth it and does it in such a way that he loses or trades what he got.
Those who are very rigid make it so that they receive nothing, because, in their opinion, they must be extraordinary to receive a reward. But more causing problems is his insistence on any authority when he is right. When he's convinced he's right, he'll risk anything so he doesn't lose the reward of his excellence.
And, he doesn't like to be told he's lucky, because, for him, it's not the right thing to do. He wants to deserve everything that happens to him. if someone tells him that he is lucky and did not deserve what he has achieved, he will feel very bad and indebted to someone (and will do everything to not keep what he has achieved only for himself). Hence another characteristic of the rigid, represented by the fact that he often finds it more unfair to be favoured than to be disadvantaged over others.
In such a situation certain rigids will do their best to lose or stop what they offer, others think they are due to offer something in return and, most, signal the feeling of this injustice by overtly complaining about it.
This sense of justice makes it particularly accessible by religion or other relatively similar ethical patterns. Good, evil, fairness or unfairness are very important notions for him, even if they often seem only a "lifeline" necessary for his gestures or actions. Moreover, these are the principles by which he guides his life, which is easy to note in the language that uses it.
That's why he's attracted to all that's noble. respect and honor are very important notions for him. He's impressed by people with important positions, and if he knows he can get a certain title, he becomes even more important. He is ready to make all the necessary efforts and sacrifices, although the rigid does not regard these things as sacrifices.
Another problem of rigidity is the difficulty of distinguishing between rigidity and discipline. A rigid person forgets the need from which he left to cling rather to the means by which he comes to fulfill that need.
A disciplined person will find a way to fulfill a need without forgetting that need. And, in combination with the penchant for perfection in everything, it's hard to avoid stress, with all the problems attracted to it.
Finally it should be remembered that the rigid has as the most commonly experienced emotion, anger, especially against him. And his first reaction when he is angry is to attack someone else, even if the anger is felt against himself (even if in reality he is angry with him because he did not see what was right or did not do what had to be done).
Remember, the more we feed a fear, the faster it will materialize! The stronger the injustice wound in a person, the more situations that will result in someone else being wronged.
Just as important is remember that our ego is doing everything possible so that we don't see our wounds, because on an unconscious level we assigned it this mission. We are so afraid to relive the pain associated with each wound that we hesitate by all means that we have to recognize that if we live in a situation of injustice, this is because we wrong ourselves.
Those who wrong us appear in our lives to show us how much we wrong ourselves. And what is harder is to forgive ourselves because we don't usually realize that we are resentful of ourselves.
And, spiritual laws say that as long as a person has not experienced in love, he will have to return to earth to relive the same experience, coming back having the same souls but with different roles. All this to give us a chance to definitively solve what we have failed to regulate in our previous lives.
And finally, which I will "promote" repetitively, sadistically, whenever I think it is necessary, I will give you a simple quote from Victor Frankl: "Do not aim for success, for the more you want it and the more you make it a goal, the more you will miss it! For success, such happiness, cannot be traced.
He must follow, and even so, as an unintentional side effect, from that dedication of man to a cause greater than himself or as a byproduct of self-giving to another person. Happiness or success must come by itself, you must let them occur by not taking care of them.
You must listen to what your conscience tells you to do and carry out that thing as best you can. Then you will experience the moments when success or happiness will follow you precisely because you have forgotten to think about them!!!" (either this and long-term, I repeat, in the long term).
Do you think if it's a day
of 13 it'll be different than fine?!? All you have to do is
think and give love and gratitude!
Dorin, Merticaru