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So as long as the "Law of Polarity" works, I pardon, "The Law of Mirroring", and you can't get rid of it (it's impossible to do that), it's a question of using it and using it to your advantage. This conscious use, in the case of examples at the end of the previous post, translates into awareness and assumption of imperfections, anger, sexual impulses, etc.

I mean, assuming the traits and impulses you contain, but you only recognize them to those around you. Assumption must mean admitting, recognizing or accepting (both intellectually and emotionally) that a quality or trend belongs to you.

Intellectual acceptance is the establishment of the indisputable character of this law at the mental level, and emotional acceptance is the ability to feel the characteristics or the impulse specific to a given moment of introspection (it is not enough to consist, to think that you manifest something, but you must also feel).

When intellectual recognition and emotional acceptance are present simultaneously, you can talk about assumption, and assumption gives you the power to start integrating what you have found, if you think it is necessary.

And from the moment you start to assume the unconscious aspects, the universe will no longer send (slowly or suddenly, depending on the level of your awareness, including because of the principle of inertia that also works) that aspect towards you.

Once a particular trait is accepted and enters an integration process, people who reflected this characteristic either disappear unexpectedly from our lives or no longer manifest it in relation to us. That's because what you accept inside you, closing it or placing it in the mask, where it is manifest (even altered by our integration), it no longer needs to be created outside you (respecting the law of polarity).

So the goal was achieved and the process of awareness and transformation began. And if you have an authoritarian boss, once you start accepting your own tendency to dominate, it can happen that he is suddenly changed (literally or in behavior, or you find another better boss in a higher position (payment, appreciation, etc.), or... many more good for you and those around you, to whom you have access).

And the examples of this can continue. Notice that, just as well, you may also transform your relationship with the other. If he or she are unable to perceive that change, life will simply take them away from your contact environments. Or, conversely, you'll gradually get out of their lives without any culpability or resentment.

Certain persons or situations occur periodically in our lives because they are called by us (the reciprocal being also valid), namely those aspects of us that, being permanently rejected, work at the "level" of polarity requirements, from the sub-mask.

From there, magnets act, unconsciously guiding us to specific people and events. Nothing is random. So, you'd assume the traits that the other one embodies, manifests, it's like disconnecting from him.

You will, of course, connect to someone else, because the "stock" of sub-masks is inexhaustible in manifestations and presence. But for the look you've integrated, you don't need the mirror, the other pole. The person who served your balance will leave your life or stop behaving in that way with you as, just as best, you can choose, without regret, not to include it in your "life".

So it seems that the creator's only desire is for us to be whole, and that leads him to send us, tirelessly, people who strongly manifest the aspects that we deny or refuse to recognize.

The ultimate goal of our spirit is to become a whole, which is why it draws into our lives everything necessary to awaken or activate those sleeping parts or sequestered through the depths of the unconscious. If that is the case, the law of polarity serves this purpose, it being practically a kind of law of resonance, because it creates situations and connects people with affinities.

In other words, people who vibrate at the same wavelengths, whether they are conscious or not, attract each other. Sometimes unconscious attraction is repolarized into the conscious as rejection. You can be attracted to a very creative person because it energizes in you your own creativity but, just as well, you can be unconsciously attracted to a person ... difficult to characterize but which stimulates you through other levers based mainly on rejection to stimulate your creativity.

Things become more noticeable when emotional involvement occurs. Whenever you notice yourself involved, it is good to ask yourself, "What is this man trying to teach me?", "What aspect of myself embodies?", and the like.

If you know how to answer these questions, your relationship with that man will harmonize or your trajectories will spontaneously cease to intersect, leaving only the feeling of gratitude for that "involvement".

If you don't understand, perceive something so that you have an answer, that man or something similar will come back until you understand. And even if this repositioning will span a long period of time, trust that the Creator's patience is boundless and we have all the time possible, no matter how many reincarnations it requires.

It should not be forgotten that: "You don't have to be "angry" with people or situations because both (you and those people, you and those situations) are in perfect contact, and you can't exist without each other. To be alone, without the other, without the other (situation) is weakness and even annulment."

Another important problem (manifestation), in close connection with the law of polarity, is the way in which the sub-mask (even the mask) is projected externally, the mechanism by which the environment (none) characteristics of the person(s), technically represented by the psychological mechanism of the projection, are projected.

It is an operation to expel into the outside world thoughts, affections, impulses unknown or unacceptable as a defense of archaic origin through which qualities, desires, impulses that you do not know or refuse to yourself attribute to others, people, things or others in the environment of a landmark individual.

Because we are beings endowed with subjectivity, projections are inevitable in our relations with the environment (the people who are part of it). It is impossible to establish free relationships of projections, but it is perfect to limit their intensity and amplitude (until their eventual cancellation).

In addition, if you can't design, i.e. assign something to the other, meeting it becomes difficult because it is not or cannot be shaped, even if it can represent the pole necessary to achieve the interaction.

But, good news, there is the possibility to check these projections if they are "healthy": confrontation. Be aware in this case that human relationships are all the healthier because the past (current and/ or previous life) is less present in "here" and "now".

The more "colored" the present is of the past, the more unhealthy the contamination of the projections becomes by the strong manifestation of the wounds attracted by this past. Through confrontation, inadequate interpretations, which can lead to tension relationships, can be corrected or withdrawn, leaving room for live contacts, not necessarily positive, but certainly less emotionally consuming, i.e. rid of irrational or false interpretations, beliefs or beliefs, the control being thus diverted over the manifestations of the sub-mask and over the use towards something useful, favorable.

A peculiarity of this projection is that it is not performed on any kind of screen (polarity ratio, person). Thus, the person on whom you project something must contain or manifest, to a certain degree, the trait, desire or impulse that you attribute to it.

The person who serves as a projection screen has at least one point of resonance with the psychological content you project on to him based on the polarity ratio. For this reason the projections depend even more on the circumstances, even if they exist in abundance.

Imperfect characteristics in other people activate corresponding aspects of ourselves that, for various reasons, we are not aware of (the under-mask and the ego) or ignore (the mask). Thus, arrogant people will arouse the arrogance that we reject ourselves, petty people will trigger the pettiness that we do not assume, servile people will activate the servileism from which we delineate ourselves.

All these contents that the Eull refuses to admit will be projected upon them. The projection is a sign that you still don't take responsibility for your characteristics or impulses. Therefore, the sanogenous mechanism that allows the diminution or weakening of this defense mechanism is a broader awareness of who you are, supported by a higher level of acceptance.

The impulse, the need, the desire, the qualities, the flaws you project, they all belong to you and they're all facts of your personality. There's no point in denying them or disdissociating yourself from them, because that's how you block your psychological maturation and evolution.

Instead you can use the projective mechanism to get to know yourself in the "mirror" formed by those around you, to grow from an inner point of view and to adapt creatively to your environments of belonging, expression of polarity, masks (mask and submask) being nothing but a kind of interfaces between the ego and the outside (the first expression of the outside being your own body and only then being about people "outside" or from the outside itself).

We will continue with this mirroring, polarization or attraction, as it is called by the authors (researchers, etc.) who study this phenomenon...

I wish you to know, love and be grateful all week, so that we may be so for the rest of the days left in your path!

Dorin, Merticaru